I had to go back a lot further back than I suspected to find my review of Stardust. I mostly liked it, but had some issues with it - around the same scenes, but for different reasons. (The consent issues didn't even ping with me.)

I (really) liked the book, but was way less keen on the film. A friend absolutely adores the film, but didn't like the book. My issues with the film were different from my book issues. I can't remember why I wasn't that fussed on the film. I think it may have strayed more than I was happy with from the book. Don't get me wrong, I was glad to lose certain specific aspects of the book, but I think they changed other aspects.

However, I think if you enjoyed the book, except for the issues you mentioned, I think you might like the film.